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The Fight of My Life

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The Fight of My Life Written - 12/9/2018 The trauma that dropped me to my knees and changed life as I knew it completely. I don't know I'll go through every detail of every part of the trauma just because I don't know it's necessary. If there is something that you want me to expand on or explain further please just leave me a comment and I will either create a new post or add in that section for you. To fully understand what happened, I guess it would make more sense for me to start from when I met my husband that way you see the whole picture. So here goes... I found myself in one of the hardest times of my life in September, October, and November of 2013. I called Cass homeless shelter my home. That is where I met Josh, my husband. We possessed nothing but ourselves. From the moment I encountered him, I felt safe but completely different. He never handled me like a piece of meat or the conquest he was trying to conquer. He consistently attended to me like a human bein...

No, how about why Not me?

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No, how about why Not me? 9/12/209 Why me? Why can't I seem to catch a break somewhere? ​What in the entire bunch of ff's? No, how about why Not me? How about, Please make me a strong WARRIOR? It's easy to look at things and think "why me" but what good does that do? Does it make you feel better? Hell no it doesn't, it drags you down deeper… Everyone wants to be the best at what they do, they want to be at least seen as strong. Well don't strive for looks! Look your troubles in the eye and say proudly "Thank you for helping me get stronger!" Most things are not good or bad, our perception turns things into a negative or positive. For example: a lost job due to an accident, that can be seen by most people as a negative for a lot of logical reasons. However, I didn't see it that way. I saw us, our family, getting more time together! You ultimately get to decide how you are going to feel about everything. Unlike logic, feelings aren't alread...